Comments on: DIVORCE!!!…???????

By: Marissa

Marissa — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

Divorce is really hard it is not fun to go through but it is not your choice to make it is theirs just tell them what you are felling and ask them not to in front of you and your brother
But yea marriage when people don’t like each other is worse

By: fallingapart

fallingapart — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

really, i know it may seem like a dumb idea, but talk to them about it… tell them how it affects you. if that doesn’t work just tell them both to piss off…

By: badgersdaughter

badgersdaughter — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

Honey, divorce doesn;t always mean peace. People who can’t get along when they’re married won’t magically get along when they are divorced and they still have to share the kids and the money. It can be better to be apart if the fighting is really terrible. Sometimes people just can’t be trusted to act like grownups.

I hope everything works out for your family. It won’t last forever, I promise. You will grow up and be out of there soon.

By: nutmeg

nutmeg — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

My parents are divorced. And have been for the longest time. They still fight. Over child support, over the children, everything. But not so recently. You learn to live and work your way around your parents arguing. I did. And still do. I got tired of it, so I decided to just give up thinking about it and went on with my life. Some men are just plan ignorant.

By: Linda M

Linda M — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

Talk to your parents and let them know how you feel They might not realize what they are doing to you and your brother

By: Kincay72

Kincay72 — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

My suggestion would be for you to talk to your parents and tell them how their behaviour is affecting you and your brother. Maybe suggest to them to get couples counselling. If this is hard on you, you may also need some support yourself. There are many organisations you can contact for over the phone or face to face help.

If your parents love eachother, they will consider your feelings and make a go and fixing things at home, even if they don’t stay together.

Be honest about your feelings. Good luck.

By: eagle of the south

eagle of the south — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

some people like your mother and father really like the arguing and the fighting. because that’s really what makes them happy. and then
they have fun making up. there still together and they have not
separated and have not got a divorce. so the best thing you can
really do is just let them go at it. you and your brother go out side are go to your room and close the door.

By: Lady J

Lady J — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

You need to talk to both of your parents and let them know how their fighting makes you FEEL. Don’t criticize them, but tell them how the screaming is affecting you emotionally. They need to hear that. I know its easier to blow up and join in the yelling, but they will listen with their hearts if you sit down and talk with them calmly about it. I’m sure they will apologize and be more sensitive to your feelings. If they continue, try to keep yourself busy doing other things. I’m sorry you have to go through this.

By: John B

John B — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

Some people just love to fight, it doesn’t matter what it’s about, they just love the fight. But share with them what you are feeling, it probably won’t change anything, but at least you have shared.

By: charmed4412

charmed4412 — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:13:56 +0000

If you try to talk to your parents and they do not want to talk you could always write a letter to each of them on how their fighting makes you feel. Talking works sometimes but a letter they can reread and have it hit home to them on how it effects you.